Here are some more of the MOST relevant questions and results from a recent poll on online dating:
How long do you wait before suggesting a face-to-face meeting or date with your match?
Immediately -- this is all about dating, right? 13%
- At least a week 13%
- More than a week, less then a month 16%
- More than a month 3%
- It varies depending on how strong I feel our connection is 54%
This shows the importance of being in control of the matchmaking process throughout and not merely abdicating it to a third party – you stay hands-on and proactively involved in finding and pursuing (or not!), YOUR perfect match!
How long should you date before referring to one another as boyfriend/girlfriend?
- One or Two weeks - I am an optimist 12%
- When the commitment talk happens 60%
- As soon as I introduce him/her to my family 10%
- Depends. When does the fighting start? 4%
- Labels are for fashion designers 13%
Kissing on the first meeting or date sends what kind of message?
- There is more where that came from! 11%
- A second date is a sure thing 16%
- None, just a nice way to say thank you 15%
- Depends on the type of kiss 55%
- Kiss? First Date? I'm saving myself for marriage 3%
If you are interested in someone after a first meeting or date, how long should you wait before calling?
- Next Day - Show you are interested 62%
- 2 to 3 days after 30%
- 4 to 7 days after 2%
- More than a week 1%
- Do not - Wait for them to call you 5%
Who should pay for the date?
- The man, always 33%
- Struggle over the check, but let the other person win 2%
- The one who asked the other one out 47%
- Whoever has the better-paying job 1%
- Divide the costs evenly 17%
How important is it to you that your profile includes a photo?
- Must have 82%
- Not Necessary 18%
What is the widest age difference you have had with someone you have dated?
- 6 or more years older 32%
- 1-5 years older 11%
- Always date people the same age 2%
- 1-5 years younger 10%
- 6 or more years younger 45%
Before going out with someone I have met online, I would consider asking my friends or family for approval by forwarding my prospective date's profile.
About cell phones and dates:
- OK to make calls and answer during date 7%
- OK to bring one if it is off or on vibrate 25%
- For emergencies only; otherwise no calls 55%
- Agree to leave both cell phones in the glove compartment 6%
- Leave little phone home in the cradle 8%