SO WHAT CAN YOU DO TO ENSURE YOUR BEST INTEREST IS ACTUALLY PROTECTED WHILE TAKING PART IN BOTH MATCHMAKING AND DATING ONLINE:

• Always play it safe and meet in a public safe place, where there are lots of people and ensure that someone else knows where you are going, doing and who you are meeting with. Try some neutral ground with lots of traffic and other people around, a café or restaurant remain popular choices.
• Under NO circumstances should you be giving out any type of identity related information like your home address (not until you feel it is appropriate and you have met, checked out, verified and feel safe doing so). Even then, stick to logistics and basics – like how to make contact.
• You can learn a lot by observing how people choose to communicate with. When you move from online chats, to email to letters, talking on the phone etc. , try to ascertain the level of maturity, listening and tone of voice for example. It will tell you much more about your prospect and his true nature, even intent and character, demeanor and more.
• NEVER RUSH INTO ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE! You should never feel pressured, intimidated, fearful or obliged to do or say anything.